A few months ago Linus started putting himself and his toys in time-outs. We'd hear him playing out scenarios of fire trucks hitting diggers, or stuffed animals not following directions. Then, he would count to ten, and then proclaim "You sit right there. You get a time out!" It's pretty amusing to see how you are perceived by a 2 year old. And while this mamma loves being with her guys, there comes a time when I need to put
myself in a time-out.
So last weekend we hopped on a bus to NYC for a 3 day getaway. After trudging around in the rain to get some cheap Broadway tickets, we met up with my Uncle Rollie, who has lived in the city for some time now. My mom's younger brother is the thrill seeker of the family, who also shares my love of traveling. In fact, he was in the process of packing for a "work" trip to the Philippines.
Afterwards we decided to walk back to the hotel and catch the lights of Time Square. On our way we checked out the Macy's window display, which had a flower-show theme.
Every time I go to Time Square I feel like the lights just keep getting brighter and brighter (this is probably true since all the displays are LCD screens nowadays). I was happy to see that they finally decided to close the area off to cars and let us tourists ogle to our hearts desire.
The following morning we got up early and hit up the Doughnut Plant, a donut shop in Chelsea that is legendary for its unique creations. This place was so cute with its doughnut decor-- those are pillows up on the wall, and the benches were made up of doughnut tiles.
Some extra strong coffee with fresh strawberry, tres leches, and triple black (dark chocolate with more chocolate inside and out) donuts. I had a bit of a Homer Simpson moment.
On the way down to the Chelsea flea market we walked by the TV-show home of my idol.
Then we made it one of my favorite stops of the trip: the Union Square Farmer's Market. We talked to vendors and bought up a ton of food gifts to bring home for loved ones. For my pregnant bestie Melissa, Sriracha spiced pickles. For Mattias, aged sheeps milk cheese and golden raspberry jam.

After taking some time to sit and soak up the sun, we continued south into SoHo for some shopping.
I love the historic buildings in the Castiron District, as well as the fancy-schmancy shops that live in them.
Then I made a quick stop into Balthazar Bakery, for ham and cheese croissants, cookies, and petit fours (all to bring home). Hate to say, but DC just has cupcakes, not much else in the realm of baked goods.
Sorry if this is becoming a bit of a foodie-tour blog, but I have to mention this amazing taqueria that lives in a tiny location that used to be a deli. La Esquina melted my heart with legit tacos and grilled corn covered in Mexican cheese and chili. Anyone who chooses a Luchador as their mascot deserves your business!
Then I got to take mom to her first ever Broadway show! Billy Elliot was a ton of fun, and the kids that starred in it were amazing! Very lighthearted, it was a perfect way to spend the afternoon and rest our tired legs.
No time for breaks! We headed first to Chinatown for cheap foot massages, then to the East Village to meet up with college dorm-mate Rebecca.
We felt like the "cool kids" after scoring a table at the tiny
Caracas Arepa Bar. Arepas are yummy corn pockets filled with more yuminess (like cheese, avocado, chiles, and meats).
The decors inside the tiny space was Virgin Mary themed, much like many Filipino households.
After filling up our tummies and catching up on our lives, we took mom around the corner to a rum-inspired bar. SF peeps, think Hobson's Choice dressed up. It was late (that would be past 11 for me), so we took a cab to the hotel and called it a night.
Since we had to catch our bus home at 11AM, we decided for a low key morning in Central Park. Check out the gorgeous spring bloomage!

Lest we lose focus on food, we stopped at Bouchon Bakery for some more strong coffee and ham and cheese croissants.

Then completed our stroll across the park and to the subway station, so we could catch our bus. It's pretty impressive how much we did in less than 48 hours. Mothers out there will appreciate/understand how much harder it was to be out and about since I had to pump every few hours back at the hotel!
This wasn't the first trip I've done with my mom. There was our 2 week adventure in Thailand, and our camping/canoeing/roughing-it trip to Belize and Guatemala. But this is my first trip with her since becoming a mother, and let me tell you it means so much more to be able to spend time with her like this. Nowadays there's a lot more mutual understanding, she knows what I'm going through and I understand (I think) what it must have been like raising a tiny-Ellie. Growing up, my mom would take short vacations with her girlfriends to exotic places to eat and shop, and I thought it was a bit weird not knowing anyone else whose mothers took off just for the sake of fun.

Those experiences have turned out to be one of my mom's greatest gifts. Because she took care of herself by taking breaks from us kids, I have no qualms about doing it myself. I have a great time. I never feel guilty. I get the chance to actually miss the kids. I come home refreshed, feeling like an individual again, and I hope... a better mother.